| Location | Gilwern, Abergavenny |
| Age | 55 years |
| Cause of Death | Leukaemia |
| Date of Birth | 12/07/1953 |
| Date of Death | 12/09/2008 |
| Visitors | 822 since 15/10/2008 |
| Creator |
David, my dad. He was my hero, i always looked up to and respected him. He was always willing to help out anyone no matter how big or small. He was ever the worrier, so as long his family were ok he was happy. My dad fought leukaemia for a long 20months, although we knew that he was ill, he never let on to us how ill he actually was, he always thought of others before himself and would not want us to worry. Even up until the night he died when he asked for us all to be by his bedside, knowing this is what we wanted. I will always be extremeley thankfull for the way he brought me up and making me the person i am today. This will make me strong in my grieving process.Seeing my dad go from a big, stong man to being so frail was heartbreaking. i get some kind of comfort from the fact that he isnt suffering anymore. Will always love and never forget you dad. i know u are watching over me each and every day. xxxxxxxxx
i dont know what to write i just dont have a clue but what i want to say is how much i love you theres three hearts missing you so bad one heart missing her wonderfull husband and two hearts missing their wonderfull dad it hurts so much you not being here Charlie Jade and Tia send lots of love and kisses to a special bampi love and miss you every day xx love you xx ca xx
Birthday
Dad
Well i guess it's happy birthday!! I knew today was going to be hard dad, just didnt realise how hard it was going to be. Its not fair, life isnt fair, you should still be here with us, hope your chilling out up there dad and not pottering around like you always were.
Charlie asked for you the other day, he said he wanted to see you. Explianing to him is the hardest, he understands to a point but still thinks your going to come back, if only that was true hey!
Miss you so much dad, people say it gets easier as time goes on but thats so not true for us. Dont think it ever will to be honest.
You take care up there dad,
love always
Joanne
XXXX
Happy Father's Day
If I could write a story
It would be the greatest ever told
Of a kind and loving father
Who had a heart of gold
If I could write a million pages
But still be unable to say, just how
Much I love and miss him
Every single day
I will remember all he taught me
I'm hurt but won't be sad
‘coz he'll send me down the answers
And he'll always be MY DAD.x x
love you so very much xxxx ca
i dont know sweetheart we are 8 months since you were taken from us it doesnt get any easier the pain and emptyness is unbearable cant put it into words how i feel why why why i ask every day we were so happy and now we are so sad i think you and my mum are together looking down on us and keeping us safe a million kisses love you and miss you so very much xx ca xx
miss you.
There is always a face before us,
A voice we would love to hear,
A smile we will always remember,
Of the one we love so dear,
We cannot bring the old times back ,
When we were all together,
But those we loved dont go away,
They walk with us forever.xxx
i miss you so very much xx
hi darling cant believe this has happend to us we miss you so much the pain is unbearable every day its 6months now they say time is a healer well it has not healed us we are just getting thru the days best we can charlie and jade are doing great growing up fast our new little grandchild will be here soon i know you are watching over us and sending your love to us jo and chris are looking after me just like you said they would they are being strong bless them we will always love you we miss you so much god bless sweetheart xx special kisses xx ca
its our day 32nd anniversary
a million words would not bring you back i know because ive tried and niether would a million tears i know because ive cried you always aaid you hate to see me hurt and you hate to see me cry so now i have to blink away my tears and ask the question why sad are the hearts that love you silent the tears that fall living our lives without you is the hardest part of all love and miss you so very much xx ca xx
miss you here
i wish i could have you back for a day theres so much i want to say each day i know you see me cry i ask one question why oh why did god take you away you should be here with me each day i feel you by my side i know i will never walk alone you will always be there holding my hand i am never alone and you will always be in my heart i sit and cry at night my dearest darling because you are gone and when i am home i dont have to pretend to be strong i know how proud you are of jo and chris they are taking good care of me every day our hearts have been broken into two and every day we are missing you love you xx ca
Why?
Hi dad
Hope your ok up there and nanna jean is keeping you company, i'm sure she is. It'll be 10 weeks tommorow since the angels came and took you from us. Time is going so fast but in another way it has also stood still. The past 10 weeks have just gone by in a haze. Chris is lookin after your garden dad, everything has to be perfect and exactly right, even down to the flower pots being in an exact line....now where does he get that from hey!! Mum is the best she can be, i know you tried to prepare her dad, i dont think she wanted to face it tho, as we all did'nt.
Dont know how we're going to get through christmas dad, we will all be strong tho just has u taught us to be. It'll sem strange not having you there in the background filming us on the camcorder. I have a video on my phone from Charlies 3rd Birthday, i watch it from time to time, its so nice to hear your voice on there.
Charlie is growing up so fast, i had his consultation with the teacher the other day in his nursery. It seems like hes quite a character in his class, an Evans trait i'm sure. He asks for you from time to time, saying is Bampi in hospital. I've explined to him that the angels took you to heaven because you were poorly.He likes to light Bampi's candle every n ight. Lucy's little bump is growing by the day. They have'nt told us what they r having, we're all so eager to find out.
I'm going down mum's now dad, taking her out shopping for a couple of hours. Love and miss you, always and forever. Joanne & Charlie xxxx
Dad
Dad...so many images come to mind
whenever I speak your name;
It seems without you in my life
things have never been the same.
What happened to those lazy days
when I was just a child;
When my life was consumed in you
in your love, and in your smile.
What happened to all those times
when I always looked to you;
No matter what happened in my life
you could make my gray skies blue.
Dad, some days I hear your voice
and turn to see your face;
Yet in my turning...it seems
the sound has been erased.
Dad, who will I turn to for answers
when life does not make sense;
Who will be there to hold me close
when the pieces just don't fit.
Oh, Dad, if I could turn back time
and once more hear your voice;
I'd tell you that out of all the dads
you would still be my choice.
Please always know I love you
and no one can take your place;
Years may come and go
but your memory will never be erased.
Today, Jesus, as You are listening
in your home above;
Would you go and find my dad
and give him all my love.
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